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([personal profile] smeared_kohl Feb. 15th, 2011 12:17 pm)
It was 4 years ago today that I had to say good bye to my mom.

Four years seems like nothing, and it hurts just as much now as it did then.

I bought my wedding dress yesterday and it still kills me that she will never see my wedding or her grandchildren that she always promised that she would wind up on sugar and send them home to me.
It's wrong that she did not get to enjoy the rest of her life, because god did she ever enjoy her life.

Everyone who knew her misses her deeply.

My mom was 57 years old, she deserved a longer life.

I love you mom.


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I lost my mum last year and people keep telling me it will get better but it doesn't.

*squishes you*

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It doesn't get better, time doesn't heal it just makes it a bit easier to function.

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I'm so sorry you lost your mom and I can tell the hurt is still fresh to you. There will be a time that it's not so sharp, and I hope you find some comfort in the good memories.


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Thank you hon.

I think it will always hurt but it gets easier.


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Four Years isn't a very long time for a hole in your heart, like an amputation to your life, to close. I believe that takes forever. You just learn to limp around with the amputation.
I'm glad you share when you think about your sadness. It is good to see a great pic of you and your mom too.

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You know I understand don't you? I am right there with you, there isn't a day goes by when I don't think to myself 'oh I must tell mum that'.

I'm sending you lots of love and hugs at this very sad time.

Big hugs

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*hugs* I know it's hard, even four years later, and especially when there are important things happening in your life that you wish she could be there for. Just remember that even though she is not physically with you, she IS still with you, watching over you. I'm not a very religious person, but I do believe in ghosts/spirits, because of personal experiences, so when I miss someone(even years later), I find comfort in knowing that they are still with me.

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I like to think she's with me, sometimes it helps.



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